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The Winning Numbers: A Blessing or Curse?

LotteryOh, to Powerball or not to Powerball!  Though I never buy lottery tickets, I can’t help but consider it now.  After all, with a record-breaking pot of $1.3 BILLION at stake, how can one not get caught up in all the hype?  Lightning is sure to strike sometime soon!  So why not step into the storm with a long metal pole and see if I get hit – hit big!

And what would I do with all that money?  I’d like to give the majority to several ministries that help impoverished areas and spread the gospel . . . I’d help out my own local church, of course . . . help out loved ones . . . and get a debt-free home and some college funds for my children.  I can even find Bible verses to back up these intentions, so surely God would not oppose!

It’s easy to look at all the “good” we could do if a sum that size fell into our laps.  What we tend to forget is all the bad the money itself can do to us.  Rather than being the blessing many hoped it would be, it has a history of being otherwise, so much so that it’s been dubbed “The Lottery Curse”. 

But let’s not look at the frightening statistics of lottery winners going bankrupt, getting divorces, sinking into depression, and committing suicide.  No, everyone dismisses those statistics and assumes they’d be an exception. Rather, let’s see if there is any Biblical direction when considering whether to buy that lotto ticket or not.

Here are 8 reasons that convinced me NOT to buy:

  1. Reaping what you sow:  Here’s a well-preached message from Galatians 6:7, “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.”  Though I’ve never heard it preached negatively when it comes to money, its application certainly spans that far.  Here’s the kicker:  If you get money quick, you will most likely lose it quick.  Quick in-quick out!
    Here are three different translations of Proverbs 13:11 to prove this very application, just in case you doubt me:
    * “Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished: but he that gathereth by labour shall increase. (King James)
    * “Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.” (English Standard)
    * “Wealth from get-rich-quick schemes quickly disappears; wealth from hard work grows over time.” (New Living)
  2. Misplaced Glory:  Many Christians may want to give God glory for winning the lottery, calling it “God’s favor.”  Unfortunately, that’s just not how the world will see it.   When one looks to a lottery winner, to where does glory go?  To the lottery!

    Abram (Abraham) realized this dilemma when he was offered riches from the King of Sodom.  Surely, he could have played the “God’s favor” card and given in to the temptation to accept the king’s offer.  But he did not.  He rather responds in Genesis 14:23, “I will accept nothing belonging to you, not even a thread or the strap of a sandal, so that you will never be able to say, ‘I made Abram rich.’”

  3. Gifts vs. Hand-outs: I will not be the naysayer claiming that God will never drop large sums of money into someone’s mailbox.  God likes to bless and it may occasionally be in this form.  However, a more biblically common form of God’s monetary blessing is in the form of “ability” or “gifting” rather than a hand-out.

    Deuteronomy 8:18 states that “it is He who gives you the ability to produce wealth.”  Simply look at the richest man the world has ever known, King Solomon.  He did not receive a hand-out.  He chose to ask God for wisdom rather than riches, and thus it was through his wisdom that his riches increased (see 1 Kings 3).  His proverbs repeatedly confirm the order of relationship between the two: the causal (gift of wisdom) and the consequential (riches).

  4. False Entitlement: Many people live under the assumption that they are entitled to “their” money.  Jesus would call this wrong mastership.  False entitlement is simply a symptom of money being our master, not of ourselves mastering money.  Many minimize God’s ownership of their finances to the 10% tithe, though He is entitled to everything.

    This can be a difficult admission for both poor and rich alike, obviously, so the difficulty does not arise just because you won the lottery.  It isn’t easy for a poor person to give everything, thus the reason Jesus marveled at the poor widow who gave all that she had, though it was only “two very small copper coins”. (Mark 12:41-43). Jesus marveled because he knew it wasn’t easy.

    I would suggest, however, that it is easier for a poor person to give everything than it is for a rich person. The more money . . . the more strings . . . the more entitlement . . . the more money-masters holding onto you!  Jesus points this out after dealing with the rich young ruler in Mark 10:17-37.  This particular rich man heard the audible words of Jesus instructing him to sell everything and give to the poor – even better than seeing “writing in the clouds”!  Unlike the poor widow with the copper coins and unlike the poor widow giving Elijah her last bread, however, the rich man failed.

    His financial status is not coincidental to his failure. Scripture is clear: ” He went away sad, because he had great wealth.” Thus Jesus’ following statement: “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!  It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.”

     

  5. Disowning God: I know this title might befuddle some.  It sounds so harsh, after all.  Yet, it is the very word used in Proverbs 30:8-9 in which Agur prayed, “give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread.  Otherwise, I may have too much and disown You and say, ‘Who is the Lord?'”

    There are degrees of disowning God. 
    I’m not trying to assert that lottery winners will reject their faith in God entirely.  There is a form of disowning, however, that is all-too-common among the wealthy, and it has everything to do with where their trust is placed.  This is why Paul feels he must warn the wealthy in his letter to Timothy to “not trust in uncertain riches” (1 Timothy 6:17).  As with #4, this is simply a sign that we too often dethrone God and look to money instead.
  6. Becoming a Stumbling Block: Your own heart may be ready to deal with big lottery winnings, but you don’t live in a bubble.  Even if you had, you likely won’t after the big announcement!

    We’ve all heard of lottery winners’ relationships being destroyed.  Most family and friends can’t resist the covetous thoughts that will inevitably attack them.  They may measure the value of their relationship with the $$ offered to them out of the winnings and become hurt and angry if they feel shorted.  There are devastating stories of lottery winners being murdered over their money.  Yet, one doesn’t have to be faced with murderous threats to feel devastated.

    So does the Bible offer any hint of direction? I’ve heard some prosperity preachers claiming that it’s good to make people jealous of how God has blessed your finances, since that will make them want God.  If that’s the case, then those jealous “converts” are only turning to God to get money.  That’s not the type of conversion God wants!

    I’ve heard another preacher laugh about the fancy car he drove which elicited offended stares.  There’s also been more than one minister criticized for overindulgence in their choice of home . . . or number of homes.  Some people don’t think preachers, nor any Christian, should “spoil” themselves.  But should we be burdened by other people’s decision to be offended?  Love, after all, is not easily offended (1 Corinthians 13:5).  What we do with our money is just between us and God, right?

    Let’s look at a few examples from Paul.  Though Paul clearly states that workers in the church deserve honor and payment in 1 Timothy 5:18, “the worker deserves his wages”, he also makes it a point to  deny his own rights in 2 Thessalonians 3:7, “We were not idle when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone’s food without paying for it. On the contrary, we worked night and day, laboring and toiling so that we would not be a burden to any of you. We did this, not because we do not have the right to such help, but in order to offer ourselves as a model for you to imitate.”  In other words, Paul didn’t exercise his “right” for the sake of others.

    Similarly, in 1 Corinthians 9 Paul states, “. . . it is written in the Law of Moses: “Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain.”. . . If we have sown spiritual seed among you, is it too much if we reap a material harvest from you?  If others have this right of support from you, shouldn’t we have it all the more?  But we did not use this right. On the contrary, we put up with anything rather than hinder the gospel of Christ.”

    Again, Paul lays down his own rights when it came to what he ate and drank: “Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother or sister to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause them to fall.” (1 Corinthians 8:13) and “It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother or sister to fall.” (Romans 14:21).

    What does this have to do with the lottery? Even if it’s not your “fault” you won the lottery and that others are jealous and offended . . . even if it’s your “right”,  you should consider whether it’s really worth causing them to stumble.  Is it worth the broken relationships?  It may not only hurt you, but hinder the gospel of Christ as well.

  7.  Little Things Matter:   You may reason with yourself that a Powerball ticket is only $2.00.  What’s the big deal?  But that $2.00 has the power to dramatically change lives.  Have you asked God whether you should use His $2.00 with so much risk involved?  If your response is that “I won’t win anyway”, then I’d have to ask why you intentionally decided to waste God’s $2.00.

    Just remember, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much” (Luke 16:10).  The lesson here is that the little things matter!

  8. A fool thinks he’ll be the exception:  Fools despise wisdom and disregard counsel.  They always think they know better!  There is a large part of me that thinks I’d be an exception as well.  There obviously are exceptions!  So I don’t want to offend by calling someone a fool.  There’s a bit of a fool in me also!

    There’s a quote that comes to mind from one of our family’s favorite movies, Prince Caspian.”  In it, Aslan has just acknowledged Prince Caspian as a Narnian king.  Prince Caspian rises hesitantly and states, “I do not think I am ready.”  Aslan’s response?  “It is for that very reason I know that you are.”

    Don’t misconstrue that to mean that doubting your ability to handle a lottery winning means you actually are ready. It simply means that at least you’re not a prideful fool and you’ll prayerfully consider which action to take.

So consider carefully.  God bless!

 

 


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Wanted: Followers, Not Leaders!

Follow“Then I saw heaven opened, and behold, a white horse!  The one sitting on it is called Faithful and True, and in righteousness he judges and makes war. His eyes are like a flame of fire, and on his head are many diadems, and he has a name written that no one knows but himself.  He is clothed in a robe dipped in blood, and the name by which he is called is The Word of God.   And the armies of heaven, arrayed in fine linen, white and pure, were following him ” (Revelations 19:11-14).

I will never forget it.  It was New Year’s Day of 2014.  David and I had traveled to the cities to visit friends and then spent the night in a hotel.  I spent that morning sipping on hotel coffee in our room, praying and journaling a bit before checkout time.  It may sound spiritual, but in truth I was mulling over and bemoaning my lot in life and praying for a change.  My justification for these feelings was that I wasn’t “doing” much for God.  A holy desire, right?  Classic self-deception!  That’s when I heard His reply:  “I’m not looking for leaders.  I’m looking for followers.”  There are few times that I’ve heard something so clearly.  

I was wanting God to follow my plan instead of me following His, and He knocked me right off my horse.  The above passage in Revelations serves to remind me of who the true leader is.  God is not looking for leaders, He is looking for followers.  Christ leads the battle.  Christ wins the battle.  It is only by Christ.  The same is true in every current struggle we face or goal that we set.  If we remain paralyzed by fear or complacency in our lives, we have made ourselves the leader.  On the other hand, if our efforts to move forward and further God’s kingdom are not done in the spirit of humility – in surrender to Him – in the end, we have mostly furthered our own kingdom. 

There is a running banter between my husband and myself.  When he feels something is important, he is not the silent type.  He will tell me . . . and tell me . . . and continue telling me until he senses that I have fully comprehended and agreed to what he’s said.  If there’s one thing I’ve been guilty of repeating throughout our marriage, it would be an exasperated, “Yes, honey!  You’ve said it before!”

Today, David came to me with a Bible passage.  It seems that my husband is not the only one that likes to repeat himself.  He’s actually in very good company.  Number 9:15-23 is perhaps one of the most repetitive passages in Scripture.  If God found it important enough to repeat over and over again, then it is worth our meditation.  I dare say that if this was the only Scripture I knew, I would still be well equipped. 

“On the day the tabernacle, the tent of the covenant law, was set up, the cloud covered it.  From evening till morning the cloud above the tabernacle looked like fire.  That is how it continued to be; the cloud covered it, and at night it looked like fire.  Whenever the cloud lifted from above the tent, the Israelites set out; wherever the cloud settled, the Israelites encamped.  At the Lord’s command the Israelites set out, and at his command they encamped.  As long as the cloud stayed over the tabernacle, they remained in camp.  When the cloud remained over the tabernacle a long time, the Israelites obeyed the Lord’s order and did not set out.  Sometimes the cloud was over the tabernacle only a few days; at the Lord’s command they would encamp, and then at his command they would set out.  Sometimes the cloud stayed only from evening till morning, and when it lifted in the morning, they set out.  Whether by day or by night, whenever the cloud lifted, they set out.  Whether the cloud stayed over the tabernacle for two days or a month or a year, the Israelites would remain in camp and not set out; but when it lifted, they would set out.  At the Lord’s command they encamped, and at the Lord’s command they set out.  They obeyed the Lord’s order . . .”

Again, God is not looking for leaders.  He is looking for followers.  Jesus’ invitation was not simply, “Let’s go together!” though that seems to be the new trend in preaching today.  Rather, His call was to “Come, follow Me.” (Matthew 4:19 and Mark 1:17).  Even the Apostle Paul was a follower before he was a leader.  He emphasized the importance of this in his letter to the Corinthians by this correction: “For when one says, “I follow Paul,” and another, “I follow Apollos,” are you not mere human beings?  What, after all, is Apollos?  And what is Paul?  Only servants, through whom you came to believe—as the Lord has assigned to each his task” (1 Corinthians 3:4-5).  Paul’s invitation to “Follow me” was with a condition.  His condition was “as I follow Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1).

So whether the temptation is to charge ahead in life or to remain as is, check to see whether that cloud of God’s Spirit is staying or going.  It may not fit our plan.  It may not feel comfortable.  It may stretch us further than we can imagine stretching.  Some of our pride may even get hurt . . . let it!   Our victory is only found in the humble obedience of one call: “Follow me.”


 

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Grace to Be Gracious (Part 3) – Audio Message

grace[1] To conclude my recent postings concerning our need to truly receive and understand God’s grace for ourselves in order to extend grace toward others, I felt it appropriate to use an audio of a message I shared with House of Prayer Church under Pastor Lynndene Way.  I shared this message in 2012 and still find it important to remind myself of its details years later. 

The message is divided into two tracks totaling approximately 34 minutes.    The first part dives into several of Jesus’ parables which give us an understanding of grace.  The second part incorporates personal application as I share a little about how it has translated into my own life.  Hope you will be blessed!

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
(Ephesians 4:32) 

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Grace to be Gracious (Part 2)

grace[1]Why did God use Peter, the disciple who (other than Judas) had committed the most grievous offense against Jesus in denying Him?  Why did God use him to be one of the leading apostles in spreading the gospel of Christ?  He had been given the intimacy of being within Jesus’ innermost circle and yet it was he that, despite being forewarned, verbally denied Christ . . . not just once, not just twice, but three times.

Of course, it was Peter who spoke by revelation from the Father and answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God” (Matthew 16:16) and because of such revelation he was no longer called Simon, but Peter, meaning “rock”.  I believe it is more than this revelation that made Peter a leading apostle, however.  Knowing that Jesus is the Christ does not necessarily indicate that Christ is known or understood.  As hinted at throughout the gospels, the Messiah – or Christ – meant something different for many Jews who, weary of being under the oppression of the Romans, sought a vindicator of sorts, often perceived in the form of a political activist who would rescue them and only them.

Knowing Christ needs to be more than putting the right name in the slot.  To truly preach Christ, we must first experience Christ.  And our experience is through faith and, even more foundationally, by grace (Ephesians 2:8).  Peter understood grace more fully upon hearing the evidence of his own inadequacy roll off his tongue three separate times.  He then understood his need for grace and he was later to experience God’s extension of grace.

God’s preference is often what we would consider an unlikely match.  As it states in 1 Corinthians 1:27, “God chose the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to confound the strong.”  Furthermore, we find in 2 Corinthians 12:8 that God’s grace is always sufficient and it is displayed most fully through our weaknesses, for God’s “strength is made perfect in weakness.”

The above verses were penned by a man not at all foreign to God’s grace.  If Peter seemed an unlikely match for carrying the gospel after his three strikes, Paul would have been the unlikeliest.  A passionate persecutor of the early church, Paul had personally seen to the imprisonment and execution of many Christians.  It was he that stood by in approval of Stephan’s stoning.  And it was during one of his pursuits to fulfill his “murderous threats” that God demonstrated the extent of His grace (Acts 9).  Paul would never be the same.

The unlikeliest man became the chosen man to deliver God’s grace to the unlikeliest people – the gentiles.   To say that Paul was a leading apostle would not do it justice, considering that at least 13 of the New Testament’s 27 books are attributed to him.  Yet, as Paul admits throughout his writings, he did not deserve his position: ” For I am the least of the apostles and do not even deserve to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God” (1 Corinthians 15:9).  This is repeated again in Ephesians 3:9:  “Although I am less than the least of all the Lord’s people, this grace was given me: to preach to the Gentiles the boundless riches of Christ.”   Paul understood grace.

Paul’s message was grace, grace, and grace again.  What of our sins?  “Grace,” Paul would answer.  What about our works?  “Grace,” he would echo.  But how can I . . . ?  “Grace and more grace” he would again declare.  And here comes the challenge:  What of our relationships with others?  “Grace – make your conversations full of it (Colossians 4:6) and extend it generously, being kind and compassionate and forgiving to others just as God has been to us (Ephesians 4:32 & Colossians 3:13).

Grace both necessitates and enables graciousness toward others.  The realization of our own undeservedness and the revelation of God’s love despite this fact must also carry into our perception of others.  There is nothing like grace to defeat our prejudices.  Our own reception of grace should inspire within us the truth that no one is beyond God’s reach.  And if God wants to reach them, why shouldn’t we?

“God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
(Romans 5:8)


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Grace to Be Gracious (Part 1)

grace[1]“A new command I give you:  Love one another.  As I have loved you, so you must love one another.  By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” ( John 13:34-35).

Jesus’ words form the backdrop to a lesson His disciple Peter is soon to learn.  Certainly the last three years had been the most revelatory of any Peter had experienced, though none were as pivotal as what was yet to come.

Jesus continued, “Where I am going, you cannot follow now, but you will follow later.’  Peter asked, ‘Lord, why can’t I follow you now?  I will lay down my life for you.’  Then Jesus answered, ‘Will you really lay down your life for me?  I tell you the truth, before the rooster crows, you will disown me three times!'” (John 13:36-37).

And so it went.  Three years of loyal discipleship appear to reach a bitter end.  Three times Peter disowns Jesus and for three days he is left with the grief over his master in a tomb.

It’s so easy to brood over the remorse of our last moments with loved ones.  Did we say ‘I love you’?  Was our last goodbye with an embrace?  Did we fully express our appreciation like we should have?  At times our last moments are in strife.  Perhaps there was a disagreement.  Perhaps we needed to ask forgiveness and didn’t get the chance.  This is the torment Peter no doubt faced. His last memories were of Jesus’ eyes locked on his . . . just as the rooster crowed.  Jesus knew, and there was no time for apologies.

Thankfully, we serve a God who can raise up even something that’s dead.  After three days, Christ was raised, and within His third appearance to His disciples, He was about to raise up a broken Simon Peter.  The three betrayals were met with three questions from Jesus.

First:     “Simon son of John, do you truly love me more than these?”
Second: “Simon son of John, do you truly love me?”
Third:   “Simon son of John, do you love me?”

Three times Peter was given the opportunity to replace each rejection with an affirmation of his love for Jesus.  My NIV Bible offers the heading “Jesus Reinstates Peter” to this passage.  It is a powerful illustration of second chances.  It is a powerful demonstration of GRACE.  

It is interesting that the disciple whose actions should have caused the greatest offense against Jesus went on to become the one whom most scholars agree was the head apostle.  Peter was also the first to receive the revelation concerning the acceptance of the gentiles.  Within his vision, the Lord revealed to him, “Do not call anything impure that God has made clean” (Acts 10: 15).  This would have been a major challenge to their prejudicial mindsets during that time – but Peter understood grace.

It is difficult to be gracious to others if you can’t receive grace for yourself.  Pride is at the crux of this dilemma.  After all, how can God’s blessings be recognized as an act of grace if we feel we deserve them?  Grace can only be received in humility.  Likewise, true graciousness can only be offered out of humility.  True graciousness is an extension from the understanding of the grace God has given. 

Jesus points out this principle as his feet were being wet with the tears of a sinful woman, washed by her hair, and anointed with her perfume.  This woman had been extended grace, and Jesus references her actions as a window into the nature of love – and, I believe, grace as well.  After all, grace is the extension of God’s love.  Jesus stated, “Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—for she loved much.  But whoever has been forgiven little loves little” (Luke 7:47).  Similarly, Peter had been forgiven much, and he would soon be called to love much.  Grace would call him to be gracious. 

Remember the backdrop to Peter’s pivotal lesson?  Jesus had just finished commanding His disciples to love one another to such an extent that others would recognize they were disciples of Christ.   He then told Peter that where He was about to go, Peter couldn’t follow . . . “but you will follow later.”  This is likely in regards to Christ’s death, resurrection and heavenly ascension.  Nonetheless, there seems to be great symbolism within this statement as well, given the lesson Peter was soon to undergo.  At that time, Peter was incapable of following Jesus’ command to love just as He had loved.  Peter had yet to fully comprehend his own need for grace.  He was still convinced of his own abilities. Until . . .

Until his betrayal and reinstatement. It is interesting that after each opportunity Peter had to replace his betrayals with affirmations, Jesus gave these commands:

First:    “Simon son of John, do you truly love me more than these?”
               “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”
               “Feed my lambs.”

Second: “Simon son of John, do you truly love me?”
                 “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”
                 “Take care of my sheep.”

Third:   “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
               “Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.”
               “Feed my sheep.”

These commands can be easily romanticized on our super-spiritual highs. However, there will be lows. The “sheep” and “lambs” are not always so cute and cuddly. Sometimes they seem downright baaa-d. (Sorry, I had to – I’m a children’s author after all!)  Personally, in these times I’ve learned that I will not be able to extend grace if I don’t bring to remembrance the grace given to me!

” . . . to you who are listening I say:
Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,
bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you . . .

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.
And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that.
And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? . . .
But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back.
Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High,
because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.

Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.”
(Luke 6:27-36)


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Intentional Optimism

OptimismChildren usually offer a fresh perspective. I had been brushing my youngest daughter’s teeth when out of the blue she asked me: “Mommy, do we have an easy life?”

Life doesn’t always feel easy, but I didn’t want to answer negatively and squash her preciously childlike sense of comfort. On the other hand, I also didn’t want to give her a false impression that life never has its challenges. Sometimes it’s appropriate to just get down to the basics:

“What do you think?” I asked. “Do you ever have to worry whether you have enough food?”
“No.” she answered.
“Do you ever have to sleep out in the cold?”
This question seemed to strike a chord.
“No. I have a nice warm bed . . .”
She wrapped her arms around herself in a warm self-squeeze sort of way, then continued with dreamy appreciation:
” . . . it protects me from frostbite . . . and from tarantulas . . . and from being run over!”

Now, Frostbite I can understand since we are Minnesotans . . . but tarantulas? Being run over? Though these never would have occurred to me, they were obviously an important matter to my then six-year-old daughter, and I could only conclude that she was better off because of it – after all, she had two extra items on her list of thanksgivings than I had considered. She bounced off with renewed joy and contentment in this newfound revelation. Life really is a matter of perspective.

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things.” – Philippians 4:8

Life isn’t always easy. Whether it be in our health, our careers, or our relationships, we will have seasons in which joy seems far-off. These are not the times to retreat into our own self-pity, as fun as that may be. And if you’re not dead, then these are not the times to roll over and play as though you are. Rather, these are times for battle. As the enemy tries to gain territory in our thought-life, our choice weapon should be thanksgiving.

Using marriage as just one example, I’ve no doubt that those who’ve been married at least a decade can attest to some years being more trying than others. With permission from my wonderful husband, I can share that over the last 12 years of our marriage, there were times he didn’t seem so wonderful. Had I allowed myself to dwell on every offense I believed he’d committed, then I might as well have set out the welcome mat for misery. And to be fair, I’m sure he’s experienced ample reasons to share these same sentiments.  

Thankfully, God is an optimist. Though He is not ignorant of our shortcomings, His focus is on both our current progress and our potential. I needed to rein in my negative thoughts toward my husband and direct them toward anything and everything in him for which I could give thanks . . . whatever was noble in him, right, pure, lovely, admirable . . . anything that was excellent or praiseworthy. As it turns out, the best prescription for my unhappiness was to follow God’s suit and intentionally choose optimism. Optimism identifies both the present and the potential blessings in our lives.

I’m blessed to have a husband with many admirable qualities, and I realize that others’ circumstances can be far more trying than my own. The prescription does not change, however. As it says in 1 Thessalonians 5:18, “In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.”  Similarly, Ephesians 5:20 states, ” . . . always [give] thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

This is not to say that we should be thankful for everything in and of itself. Gratitude is not intended for anything outside of God’s will. While we may not be thankful for each circumstance, we can choose to be thankful within each circumstance. After all, sometimes it’s appropriate to just get down to the basics! My daughter was thankful that she had a warm bed which protected her not only from frostbite but also supposedly from tarantulas and being run over. I can be thankful for that and so much more!  Even if all else fails, I still know One who loves me. I know One who listens to me, One who leads me and never leaves me, and One whose joy is for eternity – Jesus Christ.  That’s enough to fill my jar more than half full!

” . . . my cup runneth over . . .”
(Psalm 23:5)


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Patiently Press Toward Your Destiny

HourglassTo the faithful followers of Christ, those who have said “yes” to God. 

Perhaps the “yes” was within your first prayer of repentance, or perhaps it was concerning a specific endeavor.  Regardless of the agreement, I extend these words to you . . . keep going!  If the time for this needed encouragement has yet to transpire, then may it echo into your future need.  KEEP GOING!

An understanding follower of Christ will possess the foreknowledge that with every call will come at some point a test of patient endurance.  On the other hand, what is evasive to our understanding is this test’s longevity.  A test of this kind necessitates such evasion of understanding, for no test of patience can be effective if it ends sooner than we expect, nor even within our expectancy.  No, by nature it must extend beyond our own limits in order to pull us into the limitless grace of God, whose works within us are counted just as much treasures as the works He will do through us – even more so.  For our destiny is not comprised merely of our earthly accomplishments, it is to radiate the image in which we were made in the beginning, that being the image of God.  More specifically, our destiny is to be conformed to the image of the Christ who did nothing of Himself, but only what His Father showed Him (Romans 8:29 and John 8:28).

Here are two truths for us to cling to during any test of endurance.  First, that your “yes” was to God and God alone . . . not to a career, not to a ministry, not to any person or pursuit, and no matter how worthy the cause.  Second, that your destiny will automatically follow if you can hold tight to the first.

Should we be surprised when doubt’s voice shouts louder than that of our original hope, when discouragement becomes an all-too-frequent solicitor?  Do not be ignorant.  The moment we set our course towards our destiny, there is also destined to be an opposition, a plan masterfully wrought to play upon our weaknesses and pervert our strengths.

Above all, its strategy is to confuse our goal.  The moment we say “yes” to God, it works tirelessly to redirect our measurement of success.  If our goal can become earthly, then not only can success be stolen from us, the labels of success and failure are apt to be misapplied as well. But if ours is a goal beyond this world, it is also beyond the reach of even our craftiest opposition.

Had the prophets of old measured their success by the world’s reaction, discouragement would likely have risen victorious.  Like Ezekiel, whose call was regardless of “whether they listen or fail to listen” (Ezekiel 2:5), the fulfilling of our destiny also is dependent not upon anything in or of this world but rather in our fulfillment of each and every “yes, God”.

It is of no surprise that Ezekiel was first shown the peculiar heavenly creatures, whose striking behavior was that “each one went straight ahead, and wherever the spirit would go, they would go, without turning as they went” (Ezekiel 1:12).  Likewise, we are to set our compass toward God Himself and wherever the Spirit goes, so too shall we.  We mustn’t turn.

“No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God” (Luke 9:62).  Therefore, keep going!  We cannot risk any turn, not a turning to look back as Lot’s wife did – who, seduced by the past, stands to this day as a warning concerning such a seduction’s entrapment.  Pay heed to the mistake of Israel, who “did not consider her destiny; therefore her collapse was awesome” (Lamentations 1:9).  Remember, also, God’s words to the Israelites before the Red Sea:  “Why do you cry to Me?  Tell the children of Israel to go forward” (Exodus 14:15).

Do not be confused if even within your “yes” to God, your worldly fulfillment of it seems far-off.  Our God is never complacent, so be assured that even while our earthly positioning or situation seems to be at a standstill, He is continually at work to position us in higher spiritual standing – from glory to glory (2 Corinthians 3:18).  The design of patience is not to generate inactivity but rather to actively and continually confirm a “yes” to the will of God over your own.  Patience is not lost ground nor is it lost time.  Thus, in whatever form the Lord designs – keep going!  Continue enduring!  Your destiny awaits, if you do not turn from the One who first predestined it.   Press on . . .

 ” . . . press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called [you] heavenward in Christ Jesus.”
(Philippians 3:14)


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